February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month in Missouri and across the U.S. As couples prepare to celebrate their love on Valentine's Day, it is a good time to remember that domestic violence is a reality for millions of teenagers, many of whom do not know where to turn to protect themselves from a physically or emotionally abusive boyfriend or girlfriend.

While people of any age can be a victim of abuse from their significant other, teenagers and young adults make up an especially large share of the victims. As many as 1.5 million high school students across the country are physically abused by a dating partner each year. When verbal and emotional abuse are included, the numbers are even more frightening: one out of three teenagers have been the victim of some form of abuse.

Teenagers face unique challenges in getting help to protect themselves from an abusive partner. They are likely in their first serious relationship and are uncertain what is acceptable, so they may not realize that their boyfriend or girlfriend's behavior is inappropriate. Those under age 18 usually must get their parents' permission to seek legal protections like an order of protection. Unfortunately, many teens feel ashamed or embarrassed to talk to their parents about the abuse they are experiencing, which means that the conversation does not take place.

Break the Cycle, a nationwide nonprofit organization that is coordinating school events during the month, says that teachers and counselors must proactively reach out to students so they do not feel alone. Teachers can present lesson plans about the differences between healthy and abusive relationships and how to end unhealthy relationships. Teachers should also stay alert for signs of abuse to direct victims to helpful resources like the National Dating Abuse Hotline.

Source: Huffington Post, "Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month Kicks Off," Laura McMullen, Feb. 6, 2012