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Misunderstandings That May Affect Your Decisions in Divorce

While mediation may be able to help some individuals who have family law issues, there are several misconceptions regarding the mediation process. One primary source of confusion is that participating in mediation precludes a person in Missouri consulting with a divorce lawyer. However, this is only one issue that causes confusion.

Another misconception is that a person must initiate the divorce process by serving his or her partner. In fact, a couple can reach an amicable agreement and then file divorce paperwork. This can help lead to an uncontested divorce. However, if a couple does contest certain issues, they do not have to resolve everything through mediation. Instead, the couple can work out some primary issues, such as child custody and equitable distribution of the assets. At the same time, they can reserve some issues for later, such as spousal support and a parenting plan.

Term life policies not worthless when separating

When you are getting a divorce or legal separation, one thing that can get overlooked is any term life insurance policies. While it has no cash value, a term policy can provide needed support should one of the individuals die. As long as the premiums are up to date, a term policy can provide money for children's education, bills and other matters. It can work as the spousal support it was intended to be when it was purchased.

If the term life insurance was intended as spousal support when purchased, then it would make sense to keep the ex-spouse as the beneficiary despite "ex" now being added to his or her title. If it was intended as a financing tool to pay off the mortgage on the home you were in together, it may no longer have a purpose and your ex-spouse would have every right to change the beneficiary in that case.

Handling credit-card debt and liability during a divorce

During a divorce, partners often question their responsibility for credit card debt when they didn't know or authorize the purchases and can't even sign on the card. States will vary on how responsibility to repay debt after a divorce is assigned to couples. If the state is a community-property state, creditors can hold either person responsible. However, they cannot do so in non-community property states unless both partners are joint-account holders on the credit card.

During a divorce, the couple will divide up assets, such as the home, retirement account and investments, and liabilities between the partners. If one spouse was spending money and hiding it from the other, that information will most likely come up in divorce court. The judge will consider this information when handling assets and liabilities and ruling on the case.

College funds and divorce

Many parents in Missouri want their children to be able to go to college, but when a couple divorces, it can create issues regarding how a college fund will be managed. Like most things during a divorce, it is better to establish how college funding will be handled during the proceedings. This will ensure that there are no misunderstandings and the agreements can be put into writing.

One of the most common and tax effective ways to handle college funds is to use 529 plan accounts. Divorcing couples can either use one joint account that will be invested according to an agreement made beforehand or two accounts can be created that both parents have individual control over. In some cases, individuals may want to freeze a 529 plan account to ensure that their ex does not remove money from the account. Unless it is frozen, money can be taken out for any purpose as long as someone covers the associated tax penalties.

Millionaire accused of fraud in child support case

Residents of Missouri may be interested to learn of a wealthy trio of a woman and two men who are locked in a legal battle over paying child support. The father of the child is accusing his former partner's new boyfriend of fraud in giving her monthly income in the form of "loans," causing a court to err in calculating child support at nearly $50,000 per month.

The situation began when a Wall Street financier and an heiress conceived a child together. The little girl was born after her parents separated, but the father has paid child support for the girl's upkeep. However, he is now claiming that the mother's new boyfriend, a former Goldman Sachs executive, falsified records to show that he made the woman loans when, in fact, the money he gave her was in the form of gifts.

Even the not-so-wealthy may benefit from prenuptial agreements

Some St. Louis residents who are preparing to marry may wonder whether they would benefit from entering into a prenuptial agreement. It is a common misconception that only the very wealthy need prenuptial agreements. However, more couples are seeing the benefits. Once thought to be unromantic, more couples are seeing a prenuptial agreement as a practical insurance policy to help them avoid a long and costly court battle if they should later divorce.

One benefit of a prenuptial agreement is that couples can agree who should be entitled to funds and assets acquired during the marriage. This can benefit a partner who starts a website shortly before the marriage, or immediately after the marriage, without the spouse's assistance. Similarly, a spouse who anticipates a large raise, a substantial increase in business income or taking over a family business after the marriage can ensure that these assets remain protected if the marriage is later dissolved.

Protecting women breadwinners in a divorce

Many Missouri women earn less than their husbands; however, this is a norm rather than a hard rule. According to research, a woman is more likely than ever to be the breadwinner in a marriage. A recent study showed that 16 percent of women are the higher earners in their households. While this is number is still low, it makes for special considerations, especially in a high-asset divorce.

Before marrying their spouse, a woman should consider having an agreement in place about which assets will be considered separate and which will be considered property of the marriage. A prenuptial agreement is designed to protect the interests of the spouses if the parties divorce, and it has the dual advantage of possibly preventing litigation, which lowers the cost of divorce for the couple.

Judge's ruling upheld in custody case involving possible bias

A panel of three judges has upheld a ruling giving primary custody to a mother but expressed concern that personal opinion was interjected in a court case. The case was under appeal because the ruling judge allegedly referred to her own beliefs during the divorce case.

The specifics of a child custody case anywhere in the Midwest, including the St. Louis area, should be decided in an un-biased way, according to experts. The appeal filed by the husband stated that, because of the judge's reference to a Bible doctrine that says that wives should obey their husbands, the ruling was not objective. The husband's attorney, however, did not object to the Biblical reference during the trail, and experts say that the lack of objection may have been a factor in the ruling.

Misidentified suspect accused in kidnapping child

A Missouri woman may have been falsely accused of kidnapping a child after she tried to protect the five-year-old girl from an escalating domestic violence situation. The woman claims that the little girl's mother came to her asking for help after the child's father hit her. The adult drove off with the mother and the child to escape the domestic violence incident.

The father called the police to report that his daughter had been stolen, and law enforcement issued an Amber Alert. The woman realized that they were searching for her and the girl, so she contacted the authorities and worked with them on the case. The child was eventually returned to her father after the confusion was cleared up.

Hardball's Matthews questions domestic violence concerns

A recent episode of Hardball with Chris Matthews will be of special interest to women who are victims of domestic violence in the St. Louis area. The program featured a conversation with MSNBC Andrea Mitchell on the appearance of Vice President Joe Biden at the annual Vital Voices Global Leadership Awards, honoring those who serve as advocates for women's causes. One of these causes, domestic violence, has been a particular topic of concern for Biden, as reflected in a rather impassioned speech he delivered on this very topic in conjunction with his appearance at this event.

In discussing the event with Ms. Mitchell, Matthews expressed a moderate amount of surprise at the assertion that women are fearful of brutal treatment in their homes from men. The degree of concern expressed by Senator Biden was confirmed by Ms. Mitchell in response to Matthews' questions in the affirmative. 

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